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Jaz (IFTAS)
@jaz@mastodon.iftas.org  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago

A reminder from #TrustCon that moderators subjected to vicarious trauma often feel guilt or shame from "getting it wrong" - but that guilt is misplaced.

Guilt and shame
Forgive limitations
 * Bodily reaction
 * Sense of "responsibility" for the event
Dissipate shame
 * "... a trauma victim may adopt feelings of shame that rightfully belongs with someone else,
   one whose shamelessness allowed them to perpetrate trauma, or another who did not prevent a
   trauma when they possibly could have." (Rotschild & Bear, 2023, p. 169)
 * Whose shame?
 * Write, draw, dance, etc.
 * Share - use Mindful Gauge
Guilt and shame Forgive limitations * Bodily reaction * Sense of "responsibility" for the event Dissipate shame * "... a trauma victim may adopt feelings of shame that rightfully belongs with someone else, one whose shamelessness allowed them to perpetrate trauma, or another who did not prevent a trauma when they possibly could have." (Rotschild & Bear, 2023, p. 169) * Whose shame? * Write, draw, dance, etc. * Share - use Mindful Gauge
Guilt and shame Forgive limitations * Bodily reaction * Sense of "responsibility" for the event Dissipate shame * "... a trauma victim may adopt feelings of shame that rightfully belongs with someone else, one whose shamelessness allowed them to perpetrate trauma, or another who did not prevent a trauma when they possibly could have." (Rotschild & Bear, 2023, p. 169) * Whose shame? * Write, draw, dance, etc. * Share - use Mindful Gauge
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