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You're in a chatroom with people and it's clear that one Person thinks they are DM'ing Intended Recipient.
The Person writes their frank assessment of *you* personally and your allies — including mostly nasty and mean stuff that's just bullshit but some of it has some level of truthiness to it.
What do you do?
(I had this situation today and I basically just froze in uncertainty of what to do until it was all over.)
@bkuhn this is such an interesting question.
In situations where someone behaves as if they are in private but they're not, I think it's polite to let them know. So if someone walks into a room you're in and starts changing their clothes, you might say, "I'm here," or "Do you want this room to yourself?"
@bkuhn if someone does something, believing they are in private, that they shouldn't do anyway, well, I think you have less expectation to be polite and inform them that they are accidentally exposing their own bad behaviour.
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