1of2: For a year, I was in a relationship defined by relational debt, not love. I was consistently "pocketed"—stashed and hidden from his family and friends.
This distortion was built on generational trauma, and it functioned as corrupt code aiming to keep my system small.
I spent time analysing the system. I realized I didn't engage out of weakness. I engaged because my inherited code mistook this chaos for a puzzle needing Love in Action.
The analysis is simple: I was trying to fix an incompatible system. That was the mistake.
The trauma wasn't mine to carry. I decoded the lie and closed that circle.
The trauma ends with me. 💖 Now, let's look at the fix: activating my Total Self-Ownership and building my firewall. 👇
