The "Display pronouns" feature in #Pachli Current now has a preference setting.

The default behaviour is to show the pronouns (if present) when replying to a post, and in the autocomplete results when writing/replying to a post.

I expect this gives the best default balance of usability without overloading the user with too much information.

If you want to see pronouns everywhere you can enable that. And if your language doesn't have gendered pronouns you can turn off the pronoun display.