#1: The Life Coach I would have shouted "NO" and kicked his butt! It's easy! Dress more like a scientist & men won't be tempted Now you know that was a bad mentor/lab/dept. What a great learning experience for you Choose your battles. Tough it out, focus on the science and you'll be fine Why didn't you speak out at the time? You go girl! The future is female! Good luck with that aka Victim Blaming; Free Advice; You Got This Problem: Demands solutions from the victims Warning: You may also hear this from women What he should do: Stop replying, start listening By @sbarolo and @shrewshrew

#5: Himpathy “...the flow of sympathy away from female victims toward their male victimizers--which I call 'himpathy'." @kate manne, Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny (2017) Too many profs are being fired due to unsubstantiated rumors with no due process!! No I can't NAME any. If we start holding men responsible for their actions, where will it end? She's just claiming harassment to get ahead, and he is suffering for it. We can't start protecting women until you can prove that nothing bad will ever happen to a man EVER. I'm afraid to work with women now :( He is really going through a lot, the rules are changing, it's hard out there. Censorship! Why can't I say whatever comes into my mind while everyone walks on eggshells around me. If you keep this up, men will stop hitting on women at work and the human race will go extinct. aka Witch Hunt, Whatabout, Oh the huMANity. Problem: Only men are real to him. Warning: Dangerous when cornered. What he should do: Stop replying, start listening

#3: The Gaslighter Something similar happened to a man once, therefore you didn't experience sexism. His INTENTIONS were good. It's a compliment. He never assaulted women in front of me! I need to know the exact context or I'II assume you've blown this out of proportion. He's just an old-school gentleman from a different culture with a hands-on mentoring style. Sexism is just an old man problem. When they all retire everything will be better! If sexism was *that* common I would have noticed. And by the way, she's no saint either. aka The Male Interpreter; Manecdotes; Walk It Off. Problem: It's not that bad. And if it is, you deserve it. Warning: He's already decided to ignore your response. What he should do: Stop replying, start listening