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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 17 hours ago

🌀 Coherence. Let's talk real healing.

Rule 1: Heal yourself, heal the collective. This cycle is how we build an ethical, sustainable life together in design, content, and collaboration.

My system is the Resonant Life OS. It uses simple steps (Emotional Hygiene) to ditch burnout (system drag) and hit resonance. Self-Respect is the main switch.

I'm not selling anything. I seek partners to co-create solutions from a place of love. My method works—it turns drag into lasting energy. We need experts to help this mission grow.

I'm in Vancouver, Canada, but my work is borderless. Find me here and LinkedIn only!

Who I need: Somatic Practitioners, NLP Experts, Dev/Design Leaders, and anyone feeling the call to shift from survival to resonance.

No exact role is needed. Just be aligned.

DM me. Let's discuss coherence and collaborative system design.

#EmotionalHealing #SystemDesign #Resonance

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 days ago

Trust as an Asset
The conversation about emotional healing must include trust. Trust is an asset, not a gift. It is earned slowly and can be lost instantly.

When someone betrays you, they are not just breaking a heart; they are triggering a security breach in your Personal System (Sovereign OS).

Betrayal is harsh, but it provides essential data. You learn exactly what boundaries need hardening. When you let go of the person who betrayed you, you are doing a profound act of self-respect. You are saying, "My peace is more valuable than my attachment to this broken reality."

This is how you upgrade your system. You convert the pain into a stronger firewall. You ensure that vulnerability is closed forever. Protect your system. Guard your peace.

#EmotionalHealing #SelfRespect #SystemDesign

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 days ago

Once upon a time, a magnificent being called All created a Crystal Seed and sent her on an adventure to Earth.

Her job was to forget her true self, and then, through life's pain, remember who she was.

When the soul arrived, she hid her bright light behind a sad Fake Mask of worry and doubt. She believed this mask was her real self. Yet, she knew how to love.

For 18 years, she cared for a tiny, vulnerable tuxedo cat, La Vita (meaning 'The Life' in Italian), rescued from the streets.

La Vita was her great teacher of unconditional love and patience.

When La Vita grew weak, the soul gave her the final, peaceful gift of transition.

In that moment of deep, painful love, the tears fell—not from weakness, but from a high-energy release. This grief acted as a powerful solvent.

(Continue to next thread...)

#EmotionalHealing #Coherence #SoulfulStories

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@Federation_Bot  ·  activity timestamp 3 days ago

The Strong Must Heal, Too
The conversation around emotional healing is crucial, especially for DVMs and those in helping roles.

Compassion fatigue is not burnout; it is a system crash. We expect endless empathy from vets and techs, forgetting they are also carrying our pain. This is a massive failure of Emotional Hygiene.

I wrote a long-form article addressing this crisis. I share my personal story, the systemic roots of DVM burnout, and why we must move from expecting compassion to actively protecting it.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/cost-care-compassion-fatigue-crissy-bliss-addams-znphf

#VeterinaryMedicine #EmotionalHealing #CompassionFatigue

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