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Ian Forrester | @cubicgarden
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@cubicgarden@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

The 2nd episode of Making the Familiar Strange podcast is now available with @FoxCahn, myself and Jess.

This is a frank conversation about the sorry state of #dating, #intimacy and #enshittification.

https://redcircle.com/shows/95190f06-ba12-47ae-9267-4aaa656f4e93/ep/1697378b-2ff3-43db-9d22-4f2ddc330cd7

Available everywhere you get podcasts (RSS - https://feeds.redcircle.com/95190f06-ba12-47ae-9267-4aaa656f4e93)

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Making the familiar strangeMaking the familiar strange with Albert Fox CahnMaking the familiar strange with Albert Fox CahnAn introduction to the making strangers familiar podcastAn introduction to the making strangers familiar podcast

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Ian Forrester | @cubicgarden
Ian Forrester | @cubicgarden
@cubicgarden@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

The 2nd episode of Making the Familiar Strange podcast is now available with @FoxCahn, myself and Jess.

This is a frank conversation about the sorry state of #dating, #intimacy and #enshittification.

https://redcircle.com/shows/95190f06-ba12-47ae-9267-4aaa656f4e93/ep/1697378b-2ff3-43db-9d22-4f2ddc330cd7

Available everywhere you get podcasts (RSS - https://feeds.redcircle.com/95190f06-ba12-47ae-9267-4aaa656f4e93)

Cartoon version of a black man holding a cup and a white woman talking over a coffee
Cartoon version of a black man holding a cup and a white woman talking over a coffee
Cartoon version of a black man holding a cup and a white woman talking over a coffee

Making the familiar strangeMaking the familiar strange with Albert Fox CahnMaking the familiar strange with Albert Fox CahnAn introduction to the making strangers familiar podcastAn introduction to the making strangers familiar podcast

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

Sacred #intimacy: tantra is about presence and reverence—making love is slow, mutual, and intentional.

I believe physical intimacy works best with someone you know, respect, and genuinely like; it’s not about marriage, it’s about trust.

What if touch was a choice, not a rush?
- Look for respect: they treat you kindly and listen
- Like them first: affection and small kindnesses matter
- Take time: build trust before getting physical
- Talk openly: share boundaries and needs
- Be present: breathe, slow down, check in

This is my path, not a rule for everyone. Slowing down helped me feel safer and more connected.

If you’ve tried it, what one small sign told you it was right to go deeper?

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