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It’s in these moments, watching someone else live inside a different social contract, that I’m reminded why I do this work.

Because I, too, want to age with dignity and the freedom to feed my curiosity rather than manage my fear. And because dignity in aging should never be a privilege of geography, race, or wealth, but a guarantee of our shared humanity.

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 2 weeks ago

She doesn’t have to calculate every risk against financial ruin.

She gets to experience aging as freedom rather than countdown.

She can trust that if she falls, gets sick, or needs help, care exists.

In the U.S., aging is framed as a personal failure. Security in later life is treated as individual achievement rather than collective commitment. If you can’t afford care, it’s assumed you didn’t plan or save enough and this fear is normalized.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 2 weeks ago

It’s in these moments, watching someone else live inside a different social contract, that I’m reminded why I do this work.

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #KimCrayton

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 2 weeks ago

A future that frees you from being complicit in the infliction of harm that supremacy demands.

If you are still asking how little you can do and still be considered “good,” you are not ready.

If you understand that your humanity is incomplete while others are oppressed, and that we get there together or not at all, then welcome.

But “allies”?

Need not apply.

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 2 weeks ago

It requires interrogating how that myth has shaped your identity, your fears, your relationships, your understanding of safety and power. It requires relinquishing the need to lead, to be comfortable, to be praised for “doing the work.”

It requires humility.

Your support is not a favor.

It is your payment for being in community with people who possess the knowledge, skills, and courage to lead the way toward a more just future.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 2 weeks ago

A future that frees you from being complicit in the infliction of harm that supremacy demands.

If you are still asking how little you can do and still be considered “good,” you are not ready.

If you understand that your humanity is incomplete while others are oppressed, and that we get there together or not at all, then welcome.

But “allies”?

Need not apply.

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 weeks ago

This is why binaries fail us all because this is definitely a “yes, and…” situation.

TRUTH:

The biggest problem that dudes, who benefit at the highest levels of systems, institutions, and policies rooted in the myth of white supremacy and patriarchy, have is the fact that women, in increasing numbers and across demographics, have in common is that we are no longer “buying the fairytale.”

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 weeks ago

We were convinced to believe that, finding and marrying our prince, was the key to our happiness.

We see now that the women in these stories were/were actually in cages.

And that the prince steals your soul.

https://youtu.be/Myv_cgdBpF0

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

4 days until Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.

You’ve been preparing for this longer than you know.

It’s time to learn, heal, and engage...together.

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #CountdownToDec6 #Dec6Event

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

White men...you can live differently.

You can be whole. You can be free.

You can build lives and systems that don’t rely on supremacy, coercion, discrimination, or exploitation.

The choice is yours.

Dec 6. Be there. https://rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #FutureFocused #Dec6Event

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

It requires developing the muscles that systems designed to center you have atrophied.

And it requires recognizing that the myth hasn’t been protecting you…it’s been limiting you.

Friction isn’t your enemy.
It’s your way out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkhfMxX9f2I

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #LeadershipDevelopment #WhiteMenAndLiberation

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

4 days until Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.

You’ve been preparing for this longer than you know.

It’s time to learn, heal, and engage...together.

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #CountdownToDec6 #Dec6Event

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

The myth of white male supremacy depends on white men believing they should never feel challenged, never feel uncertain, never feel questioned. It depends on you interpreting friction as an attack instead of an opportunity.

But life beyond the supremacy myth?
That life requires the exact opposite.

It requires learning to stay present in the discomfort long enough to see what’s real.
It requires reclaiming the parts of yourself that “ease” has numbed.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

It requires developing the muscles that systems designed to center you have atrophied.

And it requires recognizing that the myth hasn’t been protecting you…it’s been limiting you.

Friction isn’t your enemy.
It’s your way out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkhfMxX9f2I

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #LeadershipDevelopment #WhiteMenAndLiberation

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

White men...you can live differently.

You can be whole. You can be free.

You can build lives and systems that don’t rely on supremacy, coercion, discrimination, or exploitation.

The choice is yours.

Dec 6. Be there. https://rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #FutureFocused #Dec6Event

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth isn’t theory...it’s a practice.

A daily commitment to learning, healing, and engaging with integrity.

It’s how we move from fear and angry to accountability.

Be part of the movement. Join Dec 6.
https://rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #FrameworkInAction #Dec6Event

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth isn’t theory...it’s a practice.

A daily commitment to learning, healing, and engaging with integrity.

It’s how we move from fear and angry to accountability.

Be part of the movement. Join Dec 6.
https://rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #FrameworkInAction #Dec6Event

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

What once felt like a righteous aspiration suddenly became something tangible; something I could strategize around, test, refine, and practice.

This is how Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth moved from idea → framework → lived possibility.

Because once you see clearly how the myth harms everyone, just differently, you can finally begin the work of building something new.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

#LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton #BusinessAdvising #LeadershipDevelopment

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

Until that happens, every “solution” like Galloway’s is a danger.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IkHROCErJyg&t=2s

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

Until that happens, every “solution” like Galloway’s is a danger.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IkHROCErJyg&t=2s

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

You are simply repositioning yourself for continued dominance.

And anyone running to embrace her, or worse, demanding others do, is signaling that they are not committed to collective liberation, only to the preservation of whiteness.

Because collective liberation requires more than emotional displays.
It requires material change.
It requires consequences.
It requires white people to interrupt their own mythology and confront the ways they weaponize redemption to maintain supremacy.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

If MTG wants to be different, she can start by dismantling the very myth she still depends on for protection.

Until then, she’s not transformed.
She’s just uncomfortable.

And discomfort is not liberation work…it’s the beginning of the bill coming due.

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

That is the myth of white supremacy at work.
Stealing your humanity while convincing you it’s a privilege.

So let this be your reminder as you continue the real, difficult, necessary work of building a consistent, demonstrated antiracist practice:

Joy. Play. Pleasure. Passion.
These are not extras.
They are not distractions.
They are not luxuries.

They are tools, critical, powerful tools, in your equity, justice, and liberation toolbox.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

Tools that make you harder to manipulate.
Tools that make you more capable of connection.
Tools that return you to yourself.

Tools that help you build the kind of community you’ve been missing your entire lives.

And the kind of world we’re fighting for.

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #MythOfWhiteMaleSupremacy #RedefiningMasculinity #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

Truth requires naming the systems, institutions, and policies that produced the behavior.

Anything less is performance.

Avoid those who demand reconciliation without repair.
Avoid those who want you to pretend the harm wasn’t intentional.
Avoid those who mistake strategic retreat for growth.

Until the myth is rejected, not just the consequences of participating in it, there is no safety, no sincerity, and no liberation in these apologies.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

#MythOfWhiteSupremacy #LifeBeyondTheSupremacyMyth #BeyondMediocre #ProfitWithoutOppression #PWOCommunity #KimCrayton

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

White men need community!

Not the kind you’ve inherited, but the kind you must build:
A community where you can make mistakes, learn from them, and grow without harming the people you claim to care about.

This is the work required for Life Beyond the Supremacy Myth.
And it’s work that cannot, and should not, be done alone.

Join us on Dec. 6th https://rsvp.lifebeyondthesupremacymyth.com/winter-2025

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She

@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social · 3 months ago

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