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Melancholic Mediocrity :v_bi:
@LibertyForward1@beige.party  ·  activity timestamp 3 days ago

EDIT: We got approved for the apartment, but we now need to scramble to raise enough cash to qualify for a huge move-in discount.

I realize this is an absurdly large sum to ask for, and I'm sincerely hoping we *won't* need that much in the end but I'm a realist (okay, I'm a pessimist) and want to try and be prepared.

Ultimately it should help everyone because it would further reduce our living expenses (and by extension less begposting) but I fully acknowledge it's a.. preposterous sum. I'm sorry. I've divided into three steps in order to make it seem slightly less daunting.

We've decided on which apartment to apply for, but we've got to act fast. The staggering total amount I've listed in the CW is worst-case scenario. Supposedly we'll get about $750 knocked off of that total if we qualify which will help significantly but because their website says "up to $750" I'm trying not to consider that in my calculations.

I should have started this last night as soon as we got home but I just didn't have the spoons. Which unfortunately sets us back that much further on time.

Anyway.. here's the itinerary as of now:

Phase 1: Application fees and "Admin Fee" (because it costs soooo much money to type numbers into a computer and hit "print"). Total: $350

Phase 2: If we somehow qualify, we'll need to pay the deposit. It could range from $500 to a full month's rent depending on credit, so once they run ours it'll be a month's rent plus our right arms for the deposit. Total: $1400

Phase 3: Pet deposit is an unpleasant $525, and the first month's pet rent is $45 plus $60 for the "media" package. Total: $630

Grand total: $2,380.

Any help you can give is is appreciated. I'm respectfully requesting that my followers blitzkrieg every social media platform to which they have access to help spread the word and the burden.

They say it takes a village, and for a project this size we're going to need every villager's help with this.

LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

Thank you everyone so very much for your help, kindness, encouragement, and generosity.

#Poverty #Housing #MentalIllness #BPD #CPTSD #LGBTQ #Solidarity

@mutualaid

If you're willing AND able, please boost and if possible donate. If you can't donate, *do NOT feel guilty* for being in the same boat as us. Your feelings about it are valid but rest assured you needn't feel bad.

Venmo: https://venmo.com/thegizmotwins
Cashapp: https://cash.app/$thegizmotwins
PP: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/gizmo1982
GFM: https://gofund.me/12171be3

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Melancholic Mediocrity :v_bi:
@LibertyForward1@beige.party  ·  activity timestamp 3 days ago

EDIT: We got approved for the apartment, but we now need to scramble to raise enough cash to qualify for a huge move-in discount.

I realize this is an absurdly large sum to ask for, and I'm sincerely hoping we *won't* need that much in the end but I'm a realist (okay, I'm a pessimist) and want to try and be prepared.

Ultimately it should help everyone because it would further reduce our living expenses (and by extension less begposting) but I fully acknowledge it's a.. preposterous sum. I'm sorry. I've divided into three steps in order to make it seem slightly less daunting.

We've decided on which apartment to apply for, but we've got to act fast. The staggering total amount I've listed in the CW is worst-case scenario. Supposedly we'll get about $750 knocked off of that total if we qualify which will help significantly but because their website says "up to $750" I'm trying not to consider that in my calculations.

I should have started this last night as soon as we got home but I just didn't have the spoons. Which unfortunately sets us back that much further on time.

Anyway.. here's the itinerary as of now:

Phase 1: Application fees and "Admin Fee" (because it costs soooo much money to type numbers into a computer and hit "print"). Total: $350

Phase 2: If we somehow qualify, we'll need to pay the deposit. It could range from $500 to a full month's rent depending on credit, so once they run ours it'll be a month's rent plus our right arms for the deposit. Total: $1400

Phase 3: Pet deposit is an unpleasant $525, and the first month's pet rent is $45 plus $60 for the "media" package. Total: $630

Grand total: $2,380.

Any help you can give is is appreciated. I'm respectfully requesting that my followers blitzkrieg every social media platform to which they have access to help spread the word and the burden.

They say it takes a village, and for a project this size we're going to need every villager's help with this.

LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

Thank you everyone so very much for your help, kindness, encouragement, and generosity.

#Poverty #Housing #MentalIllness #BPD #CPTSD #LGBTQ #Solidarity

@mutualaid

If you're willing AND able, please boost and if possible donate. If you can't donate, *do NOT feel guilty* for being in the same boat as us. Your feelings about it are valid but rest assured you needn't feel bad.

Venmo: https://venmo.com/thegizmotwins
Cashapp: https://cash.app/$thegizmotwins
PP: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/gizmo1982
GFM: https://gofund.me/12171be3

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Church of Jeff
@jeffowski@mastodon.world  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago
#ActuallyAutistic #autism #autistic #AuDHD#MentalHealth#MentalIllness#cPTSD#Trauma#Depression#Anxiety
Quiet Forms of Self-Neglect:

Never saying "no"
Re-wearing dirty clothes
Delaying doctors visits
Avoiding daily hygiene
Skipping medications
Letting mess build up
Avoiding friends and family
Overworking without breaks
Forgetting to eat meals
Quiet Forms of Self-Neglect: Never saying "no" Re-wearing dirty clothes Delaying doctors visits Avoiding daily hygiene Skipping medications Letting mess build up Avoiding friends and family Overworking without breaks Forgetting to eat meals
Quiet Forms of Self-Neglect: Never saying "no" Re-wearing dirty clothes Delaying doctors visits Avoiding daily hygiene Skipping medications Letting mess build up Avoiding friends and family Overworking without breaks Forgetting to eat meals
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@jeffowski@mastodon.world  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago
#ActuallyAutistic #autism #autistic #AuDHD#MentalHealth#MentalIllness#cPTSD#Trauma#Depression#Anxiety
Quiet Forms of Self-Neglect:

Never saying "no"
Re-wearing dirty clothes
Delaying doctors visits
Avoiding daily hygiene
Skipping medications
Letting mess build up
Avoiding friends and family
Overworking without breaks
Forgetting to eat meals
Quiet Forms of Self-Neglect: Never saying "no" Re-wearing dirty clothes Delaying doctors visits Avoiding daily hygiene Skipping medications Letting mess build up Avoiding friends and family Overworking without breaks Forgetting to eat meals
Quiet Forms of Self-Neglect: Never saying "no" Re-wearing dirty clothes Delaying doctors visits Avoiding daily hygiene Skipping medications Letting mess build up Avoiding friends and family Overworking without breaks Forgetting to eat meals
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