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Autism 101 :autism: :verified:
@autism101@mstdn.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 days ago

Let’s talk tags on clothing. I hate them and they annoy me to no end. And even if I cut them off, the tiny bit remaining always manages to touch me and I hate it.

Do tags bother you?

#AskingAutistics #ActuallyAutistic

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Two photos are shown on top of each other. The top photo shows a persons neck with a tag touching it. It has a caption that reads, “What it looks like”. The bottom photo shows the same picture, but the tag has been replaced with a cactus. The caption reads, “What if feels like”.
Two photos are shown on top of each other. The top photo shows a persons neck with a tag touching it. It has a caption that reads, “What it looks like”. The bottom photo shows the same picture, but the tag has been replaced with a cactus. The caption reads, “What if feels like”.
Two photos are shown on top of each other. The top photo shows a persons neck with a tag touching it. It has a caption that reads, “What it looks like”. The bottom photo shows the same picture, but the tag has been replaced with a cactus. The caption reads, “What if feels like”.
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Autism 101 :autism: :verified:
@autism101@mstdn.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 days ago

Let’s talk tags on clothing. I hate them and they annoy me to no end. And even if I cut them off, the tiny bit remaining always manages to touch me and I hate it.

Do tags bother you?

#AskingAutistics #ActuallyAutistic

image: unknown

Two photos are shown on top of each other. The top photo shows a persons neck with a tag touching it. It has a caption that reads, “What it looks like”. The bottom photo shows the same picture, but the tag has been replaced with a cactus. The caption reads, “What if feels like”.
Two photos are shown on top of each other. The top photo shows a persons neck with a tag touching it. It has a caption that reads, “What it looks like”. The bottom photo shows the same picture, but the tag has been replaced with a cactus. The caption reads, “What if feels like”.
Two photos are shown on top of each other. The top photo shows a persons neck with a tag touching it. It has a caption that reads, “What it looks like”. The bottom photo shows the same picture, but the tag has been replaced with a cactus. The caption reads, “What if feels like”.
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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

#AskingAutistics

Have there been times when you've taken things literally when you probably shouldn't have?

A couple of mine are in the first post below.

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Elaurian
@elaurian@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp last month

#AskingAutistics

In what way(s) are you NOT typically autistic?

I'll start:

While I don't always super enjoy it, I really, really appreciate small talk. Having a socially approved script for interacting with strangers makes life so much easier for me than trying to create a conversation from nothing!

#WeAreNotBorg #NoGroupIsAHiveMind #ItsASpectrum! #Autistic #Autism #AutisticAdults

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Elaurian
@elaurian@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp last month

#AskingAutistics

In what way(s) are you NOT typically autistic?

I'll start:

While I don't always super enjoy it, I really, really appreciate small talk. Having a socially approved script for interacting with strangers makes life so much easier for me than trying to create a conversation from nothing!

#WeAreNotBorg #NoGroupIsAHiveMind #ItsASpectrum! #Autistic #Autism #AutisticAdults

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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago

I've just read that when people are hypervigilant, receiving more information is reassuring to them.

While, if people are not particularly vigilant, they find receiving more information on a topic unsettling, even anxiety-provoking 😳

#Autism#Neurodivergent#AskingAutistics

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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago

I was puzzled.

She explained that, in her experience, most people just want to be given some medicine & told they'll be fine. Being given more details and especially e.g. technical names, she said, would just freak them out.

I just couldn't believe it was true. I wondered if she was mistaken. It just seemed so counterintuitive, to me.

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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to replied  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago

Ok so I know that my baseline is anxious and hypervigilant.

Which makes me wonder now... could my tendency to want as much data as possible be connected with my baseline of hypervigilance?

While, perhaps, non-autistics feel generally quite secure... and prefer to leave it at that?

🤔

#Autism#Neurodivergent#AskingAutistics

Ref: Thinking Fast, Thinking Slow by Daniel Kahneman, chapter 13, on availability, emotion, and risk.

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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago

Which has made me wonder about autistic people.

I think I'm not unusual, as an autistic, in wanting to have as much information as possible on topics of interest.

If something scares me, I want more information on it, not less!

😵‍💫📝📝📝😊

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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to replied  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago

I was telling my friend who's a doctor about how I want as much information as possible on whatever is wrong with me. I bring a notepad and have questions to ask, and make notes.

Doctors sometimes seem annoyed at this approach. I asked her why she thought this might be.

She shrugged and said, "you're quite unusual."

(#AskingAutistics - do you do this, too?)

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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago

I've just read that when people are hypervigilant, receiving more information is reassuring to them.

While, if people are not particularly vigilant, they find receiving more information on a topic unsettling, even anxiety-provoking 😳

#Autism#Neurodivergent#AskingAutistics

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Katy Elphinstone
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to  ·  activity timestamp 4 months ago
#AskingAutistics

What's your relationship to information and data?

Is it like mine... in that the more info I have, the happier I am??

🧑‍💻💞

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