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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 days ago

Your faith that being “a white good person” and not like them, is enough.

Whiteness was built to function without your consent.

It’s the operating system you were born into.

One that rewards compliance and punishes disruption.

It scripts your behavior, shapes your institutions, and trains you to see its outcomes as “normal.”

So when I ask, how do you feel knowing that whiteness requires your complicity, I’m really asking…what are you willing to do now that you know?

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 days ago

Because you can’t opt out of the system, but you can refuse to perform your role in maintaining it.

Discomfort is not harm.

Awareness is not absolution.

Action, consistent, accountable, antiracist action, is the only path to integrity.

#Mediocre #FacilitatedConversations #Antiracism #Whiteness #MythOfWhiteSupremacy #ProfitWithoutOppression #Accountability #GoodWhitePeople #KimCrayton

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

While my community worked to find ways to engage with systems, institutions, and policies that were never designed to include us, white folx often, in greater numbers than I ever imagined, chose to double down on maintaining their unearned power and privilege by escalating the violence of white supremacy on themselves.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

And the chilling truth is this, if white folx will inflict this level of harm on themselves, it is no wonder that appeals to “your better half” go unheard when that abuse is directed toward “the other.”

#ProfitWithoutOppression#FacilitatedConversations#AntiracistPractice#WhiteSupremacyCulture #ChristianNationalism#UnlearningWhiteness#CollectiveLiberation#CommunityBuilding#JusticeAndEquity#KimCrayon#PWOCommunity

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

About rejecting the isolating norms of whiteness that tell you to compete instead of connect, to hoard instead of share, to self-protect instead of co-create.

Imagine if your worth wasn’t measured by proximity to whiteness. Imagine if the weight of individualism was replaced with a living, breathing network of mutual care. Imagine the relief, the possibility, the liberation.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

This is the work. This is what we do inside the PWO Community. It’s not just about dismantling harm, it’s about building something better, together. Link in bio.

#AntiRacismWork#MutualLiberation#FacilitatedConversations#ProfitWithoutOppression#Mediocre#RacialJustice#DismantleWhiteSupremacy#CollectiveLiberation#PurposeDriven#EquityAndJustice#SystemsChange#LiberationWork#HealingFromWhiteness#CourageOverComfort

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

Join me inside the PWO Community where we take questions like these and unpack them together, away from the performance of social media, in a space designed for vulnerability, self-reflection, and growth.

It’s time to approach this work with eyes wide open and with the courage to face not just what you’ve done, but what has been done to you.

Join for $55/month and be part of building a supremacy-free, coercion-free, discrimination-free, and exploitation-free future. Link in bio.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago
#AntiRacismWork#MutualLiberation#FacilitatedConversations#ProfitWithoutOppression#WhiteWomenGetReady#AmandaKGross#RacialJustice#DismantleWhiteSupremacy#CollectiveLiberation#LiberationWork#HealingFromWhiteness#CourageOverComfort#KimCrayton#PWOCommunity
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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

And if you’re serious about preparing for a world where white supremacy doesn’t dictate your values, behavior, or legacy, you’re going to need the stamina to sit in the tension and stay in the work.

Two paths. One practice.
➡️ Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America
➡️ White Women, Get Ready by Amanda K. Gross

📅 Starting August 9

🔗 Link in bio.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago
#DiscomfortIsTheWork#AntiracistPractice#WhiteWomenGetReady#MediocreBook#KimCrayton#PWOCommunity#CoConspiratorTraining#FacilitatedConversations#ProfitWithoutOppression#BeingAntiracistIsNotAVibe
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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

➡️ White Women, Get Ready is for those of you who are ready to confront the internalized patterns that uphold supremacy under the guise of care, politeness, or “good intentions.”

➡️Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America is for those of you who want to understand how entitlement, myth-making, and unearned power harm us all and what we can do differently.

This is not performance. This is practice.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago
#ProximityIsNotPower#WhiteWomenGetReady#MediocreBook#AntiracistPractice#PWOCommunity#CoConspiratorTraining#KimCrayton#FacilitatedConversations#ProfitWithoutOppression
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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

📣 Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton begin August 9. Links in bio.

This is not a book club. This is preparation for a different future.

Two paths:
→ White Women, Get Ready
→ Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America

These are not safe spaces for your comfort. They are DESIGNED for you to develop the knowledge and skills needed for you to challenge white supremacy.

Join the PWO Community and let’s build together

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago
#NoMoreCheckingOut#WhiteComfortIsNotNeutral#FromReckoningToResponsibility#PWOCommunity#CoConspiratorTraining#FacilitatedConversations#KimCrayton#AntiracistPractice#ProfitWithoutOppression
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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

And those patterns don’t disappear because you’re a “good person.”
In fact, they often hide behind your goodness.

That’s why we’re asking, what are “good white folx” actually doing now?

Are they practicing liberation or just protecting their image?

This is where the work begins, not in intention, but in impact.

In Facilitated Conversations with Kim Crayton, we move past guilt and into growth. This isn’t performance, it’s preparation.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

Because being “not racist”, for "good white people", is not a thing. 
We need white people to build lives that interrupt, not uphold, white supremacy.

Starts August 9. Link in bio.

Choose your track:
→ White Women, Get Ready
→ Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America

#AntiracistPractice#GoodWhiteFolx#NotNeutral#WhiteFragilityIsAMyth#FacilitatedConversations#KimCrayton#PWOCommunity#CoConspiratorTraining#ProfitWithoutOppression

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

This is the difference between:
Hoping you “don’t get called out,” and becoming someone who calls yourself in, again and again.

If you’re ready to stop performing and start a meaningful, long-term practice, join us.

📚 14-week programs based on
→ White Women, Get Ready
→ Mediocre

📅 Starts August 9

Now time to train.
To prepare.
To become.
To build.

🔗 Learn more + register: Links in bio

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago
#AntiracismIsNotAVibe#CoConspiratorsOnly#WhiteWomenGetReady#Mediocre#PWOCommunity#KimCrayton#FacilitatedConversations#ProfitWithoutOppression#FromReckoningToResponsibility#NoMoreAllies
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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

We’re not here to crown new heroes.
We’re here to stop replicating generational harm.

That’s the work we’re doing in the PWO Community’s Facilitated Conversation Series—14 weeks of healing, training, and reflection rooted in two powerful texts:
📚 White Women, Get Ready
📚 Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America

This is not book club as usual.
This is space for deep, brave, transformative work.

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

📅 Starts August 9.
Join the community. Begin (or recommit to) your practice.

Learn more + register via links in bio

#AntiracismInPractice#PWOCommunity#CoConspirators#FacilitatedConversations#WhiteWomenGetReady#MediocreBookClub#KimCrayton#ProfitWithoutOppression#FromReckoningToResponsibility#DoTheWork

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

We need white people who understand that dismantling white supremacy is not just a moral act...it’s personal liberation work.

If you’re ready to go deeper than reading lists and social media shares, join us.

Inside the PWO Community, we’re launching two 14-week training cohorts:
📖 White Women, Get Ready
📖 Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

Not just to “learn” about white supremacy, but to unlearn the patterns that keep it alive in your own life and to co-create a future where harm isn’t the default.

Starts August 9.
Let’s train for the world we say we want.

Sign up & join the PWO Community: Links in bio

#AntiracistPractice#PWOCommunity#WhiteSupremacyHarmsUsAll#HealingInCommunity#FacilitatedConversations#WhiteWomenGetReady#MediocreBookClub#ProfitWithoutOppression#FromReckoningToResponsibility#CoConspirators#KimCrayton

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Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

📚 Two life-shifting options [links in bio]:
🔹 White Women, Get Ready
🔹 Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America

Starting August 9
This is not about guilt.
It’s about growth.
And it's time.

Begin (or deepen) your antiracist practice with others who understand that white supremacy is NOT the path to freedom because its ONLY function is chaos and destruction

Kim Crayton ~ Her/She
@KimCrayton1@dair-community.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago
#ProfitWithoutOppression#AntiracistPractice#WhiteSupremacy#CoConspirators#Mediocre#WhiteWomenGetReady#PWOCommunity#KimCrayton#LiberationWork#FacilitatedConversations
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