Definitely the right size, the 34DD moves around FAR less than my 36D's were, and the girls definitely fit the cups better. This is wild to me. I'm still kinda trying to wrap my head around it. For a couple of reasons:

1. The big piece of advice I saw a lot pre- #transition was to “expect one size less than your closest cis relatives." My mom was a 36C. My bio-sister, I don't know for sure but I'd estimate her at a 32 or 34C. I have aunts, grandparents, etc. as well, in that range. My wife, though not related, is a 34B. I am larger than all of them?

2. I didn't expect this to go this well. I never expected a band size less than 38 just given my body size at the time. Truthfully I never really had a specific size in mind, just “proportional.”

And, if the aching recently is any indication, they're still growing. 😳

I still don't "feel" like they're proportional especially without a bra on. But this is definitely making me consider BA a bit less.

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This is becoming mission critical. I need to raise the funds for gf's HRT, ASAP.

Skip to end for what I'm asking for - there are two options here. There's a reason this post is tagged with Edmonton and Alberta.

I've been trying to get a Halloween job to pay for it, but worsening mental health on her end is accelerating the schedule, and they haven't gotten back to me in any case. Government assistance is not an option for her, and I'm barely scraping by for the both of us.

She has been off HRT for over a year now, and it is affecting her mental health with increasing severity.

The plan was to get her set up with 6mo-1yr, though at this point, I'd be happy with 3. We're not gonna fuck around with any delivery methods that she hasn't done before, so it has to be pills.

Any help that can be offered - any at all - is highly appreciated.

Two options:

A) Paypal link (https://paypal.me/silverfacevideos) to allow for direct purchase - whether we manage a fast appointment with her old doctor, or can manage a DIY site. Whichever comes first.

B) If you have extra estradiol pills (2mg is ideal, but we'll take what we can get) you are willing to part with - I'd be willing to pay you whatever I could afford and pick them up myself. For this option, I can do #Edmonton and area with a 50km radius. (I am also willing to include Vegreville and Red Deer) #Alberta DM me for this option and we can work something out.

I'm keeping my promise to her. Whatever I have to do - I'm keeping my promise.

#transgender #trans#Transfem #transcrowdfund#LGBTQIA

This is becoming mission critical. I need to raise the funds for gf's HRT, ASAP.

Skip to end for what I'm asking for - there are two options here. There's a reason this post is tagged with Edmonton and Alberta.

I've been trying to get a Halloween job to pay for it, but worsening mental health on her end is accelerating the schedule, and they haven't gotten back to me in any case. Government assistance is not an option for her, and I'm barely scraping by for the both of us.

She has been off HRT for over a year now, and it is affecting her mental health with increasing severity.

The plan was to get her set up with 6mo-1yr, though at this point, I'd be happy with 3. We're not gonna fuck around with any delivery methods that she hasn't done before, so it has to be pills.

Any help that can be offered - any at all - is highly appreciated.

Two options:

A) Paypal link (https://paypal.me/silverfacevideos) to allow for direct purchase - whether we manage a fast appointment with her old doctor, or can manage a DIY site. Whichever comes first.

B) If you have extra estradiol pills (2mg is ideal, but we'll take what we can get) you are willing to part with - I'd be willing to pay you whatever I could afford and pick them up myself. For this option, I can do #Edmonton and area with a 50km radius. (I am also willing to include Vegreville and Red Deer) #Alberta DM me for this option and we can work something out.

I'm keeping my promise to her. Whatever I have to do - I'm keeping my promise.

#transgender #trans#Transfem #transcrowdfund#LGBTQIA

#WritersCoffeeClub - Have you ever written a work that was a retelling of another work?

That's basically all I do! 😁 I started out writing #fanfic, and while not all of fanfic is retelling, I especially enjoyed writing pastfic where I'd retell pre-canon (or mid-canon) events with new details and from different angles. I do the same with #HistoricalFiction where I reimagine specific historical events (the life of Queen Soseono 2,000 years ago, or how WWII spy Virginia Hall met her husband) or come up with characters and events that zoom in on a generality (lesbian palace workers) or mystery (the disappearance of an ancient princess from the records).

I've also written two #transfem retellings of the Northern Wei-era classic #Mulan, one in narrative verse and one in prose fiction. If you've been following along you know I am obsessed by this idea, and if you read the original Ballad of Mulan you may understand why--my own translation is offered here. https://ljwrites.blog/posts/ballad-of-mulan/ I've also written a retelling of a war in ancient China that started over mulberry trees, focusing on a lesbian love story between two peasants caught on different sides of the border.

#WritersCoffeeClub - Have you ever written a work that was a retelling of another work?

That's basically all I do! 😁 I started out writing #fanfic, and while not all of fanfic is retelling, I especially enjoyed writing pastfic where I'd retell pre-canon (or mid-canon) events with new details and from different angles. I do the same with #HistoricalFiction where I reimagine specific historical events (the life of Queen Soseono 2,000 years ago, or how WWII spy Virginia Hall met her husband) or come up with characters and events that zoom in on a generality (lesbian palace workers) or mystery (the disappearance of an ancient princess from the records).

I've also written two #transfem retellings of the Northern Wei-era classic #Mulan, one in narrative verse and one in prose fiction. If you've been following along you know I am obsessed by this idea, and if you read the original Ballad of Mulan you may understand why--my own translation is offered here. https://ljwrites.blog/posts/ballad-of-mulan/ I've also written a retelling of a war in ancient China that started over mulberry trees, focusing on a lesbian love story between two peasants caught on different sides of the border.

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- https://ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g=0
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¡Abbie!
¡Abbie! boosted

Okay, so I did a dumb. And it's going to need some #TransMutualAid

I assumed my job (Goodwill) would be paying me throughout my recovery period. But they didn't except for the week of the surgery itself. All because I'm part-time and not full-time.

Which means I foolishly blew through the money (not nearly enough) DoorDashing food cravings and (thanks to withdrawing a $100 check to pay some tax stuff to the IRS) I am broke until the next paycheck comes Friday.

I also have the possibility of Medicaid not covering the #orchi surgery I had. And wanting to also slowly save up for vaginioplasty.

Deleting all food apps off phone and setting up some short-term mutual aid sources when I get home before doing a long-term #GoFundMe .

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