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Mutual Aid: Help a DV Survivor Get Financially Stable

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car

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Nat

@nat@kind.social replied · 3 weeks ago

#MUTUALAID UPDATE

20/1500 Car fund
5100/6000 Legal fund
50/6000 Safe housing fund

https://paypal.me/natoleander

venmo/cashapp @ natsmith89

https://kind.social/@nat/115770331514741936

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| was hoping to use the latest donation toward car insurance, but the check from my DV org toward legal bills will take a few weeks to clear. So all my cash is going toward my lawyer for today's bill.

We're also in a housing crunch because our current situation is not sustainable, and none of the transitional DV programs I've applied to have had availability yet. | really need to get a plan (and cash) together in the next few weeks so we can get into safe & stable housing.

Mutual Aid: Help a DV Survivor Get Financially Stable

Siirry osoitteeseen paypal.me/natoleander ja näppäile summa. Maksaminen tapahtuu PayPalissa, joten se on helppoa ja turvallista. Eikö sinulla ole PayPal-tiliä? Ei hätää.

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@DoomsdaysCW@kolektiva.social · 2 months ago

I just came across one of my old essays [I called them "Thots"] on #Personhood, written on February 3, 1982.

"I look at myself and what do I see? I see a person. Not a girl, not a woman, not a homo sapien, not a citizen, not a statistic. Just a person.

I am wearing dark blue knit stockings, slightly faded jeans, a plaid shirt, and an old denim vest; and somehow, these things are part of me. I am not just wearing them -- they are an extension of my persona. Persona. Personality. Not girl-ality, woman-ality, homo sapien-ality, but PERSON-ality. Ah, at least someone out there agrees that I am a person and things that pertain to me are person-related. I like that.

When I 'am' a person, there is no pressure for me to think or behave a certain way. I can just be me -- relaxed, comfortable, happy. I also feel that my style of dress sometimes reflects this person-ness. At least it does as I am writing this [still true].

Also, being a person, I can also be whatever else I feel like being. I can be a feminine person, a masculine person, an eccentric person, a nice person, etc. The possibilities are endless.

Which would you rather be? A fixed label or a flexible person?"

cc: @autistics

#NonBinary #GenderFluid #BornThisWay

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@heydon@front-end.social · last month

I've now also added “Helvetica &” and flag tees for #genderfluid.

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T-shirt: The genderfluid pride flag, but the colors are spelled out in white on black.

T-shirt: The genderfluid pride colors, but spelled out in black and white, in the “Helvetica &” style.

https://webbed-briefs.teemill.com/collection/monochrome-pride/

@heydon@front-end.social · last month

I've now also added “Helvetica &” and flag tees for #genderfluid.

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https://webbed-briefs.teemill.com/product/agender-switch-oversized/

@heydon@front-end.social · 2 months ago

🎄 December 2nd

Today's design I made for agender folks like me. But it might work for some ace and enbie folks too.

https://webbed-briefs.teemill.com/product/genderfluid-rainbow-tee/

@heydon@front-end.social replied · last month

🎄 December 3rd

When I started sharing early versions of these, a friend asked me to do #genderfluid. I came up with a couple of designs but this is my favorite.

DoomsdaysCW

@DoomsdaysCW@kolektiva.social · 2 months ago

I just came across one of my old essays [I called them "Thots"] on #Personhood, written on February 3, 1982.

"I look at myself and what do I see? I see a person. Not a girl, not a woman, not a homo sapien, not a citizen, not a statistic. Just a person.

Also, being a person, I can also be whatever else I feel like being. I can be a feminine person, a masculine person, an eccentric person, a nice person, etc. The possibilities are endless.

Which would you rather be? A fixed label or a flexible person?"

cc: @autistics

#NonBinary #GenderFluid #BornThisWay

joene 🏴🍉 and 1 other boosted

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@stuffifound@pixelfed.social · 2 months ago

Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance and that isn't without a reason. #lgbtqia #lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #queer #intersex #asexual #agender #nonbinary #genderfluid #tdor #transgenderdayofremembrance #activism

"You're being dramatic, they're never actually going to start rounding up killing trans people" Me: [Photo of a person standing next to a file cabinet labelled "History"]

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@stuffifound@pixelfed.social · 2 months ago

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Nat

@nat@kind.social · 2 months ago

#MUTUALAID REQUEST

Still need another $1800 in the next 10 days to stay on top of lawyer bills, $3800 to hit the goal toward all bills.

2283/6000 by Nov 14

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp natsmith89

#mutualaidrequest #urgentmutualaid #disabledmutualaid #disabilitycrowdfund #transmutualaid #queermutualaid #genderfluid #helpfolkslive2025 #help #begpost #transcrowdfund #lgbtq #crowdfund #crowdfunding #support @MutualAidNet

Mutual Aid: Help a DV Survivor Get Financially Stable

Siirry osoitteeseen paypal.me/natoleander ja näppäile summa. Maksaminen tapahtuu PayPalissa, joten se on helppoa ja turvallista. Eikö sinulla ole PayPal-tiliä? Ei hätää.

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Nat

@nat@kind.social · 3 months ago

UPDATE: GOAL MET!!! 💕

Got my first legal bill for the DV family court lawyer. The good news is it's less than I feared, under $2k! The bad news is I'm still $522 short & it's due now. Plz donate/boost so my lawyer can keep going—we're making fantastic progress!!

1024/522

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp natsmith89

Mutual Aid: Help a DV Survivor Get Financially Stable

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Nat

@nat@kind.social replied · 2 months ago

#MUTUALAID REQUEST

Still need another $1800 in the next 10 days to stay on top of lawyer bills, $3800 to hit the goal toward all bills.

2283/6000 by Nov 14

https://chuffed.org/project/replace-our-car
https://paypal.me/natoleander
venmo/cashapp natsmith89

Mutual Aid: Help a DV Survivor Get Financially Stable