After a flood we plant trees so their root systems join to protect the vulnerable area. The key to resilience is local relationships. Come to our meetup for meetup organizers and let’s build a resilient community together. 🌲🤝🌳
Folks have asked me how to find and build community.
Here is a very pragmatic and approachable way to find the community in your local town or neighborhood.
A little of bit of the concept with a focus on praxis.
So if you're new to community and mutual aid, don't think about what you can build. You're going to be wrong. People have already tried what you're thinking and dropped it back at version 0.3 - Everyone is on 8.2c right now.
So join what exists. Once you get good at it, then you can build out from there - with the knowledge of what is actually needed and works.
Quick note: Things are working. You're just not hearing about it via corporate news. Because it doesn't make those corps money. But its working and has been working. Glad you are joining us now! I think you'll be very pleasantly surprised as what exists around you and what you've been missing out on. Everyone joins at some point. Glad you're here now.
How do you find what exists?
The simple answer is, via community. But you haven't joined the community, so how do you find community without the community!
Since you're here, on the internet, let's start with the internet.
One thing: Folks building and running mutual aid aren't always building and running websites. They're meeting actual people doing physical things in the world. So their websites suck. Also, putting things out publicly runs the risk of inviting the nose of town government and their police forces. Sometimes posting publicly is a *BAD IDEA*. So they don't. You understand OpSec. They understand it better.
But, you certainly can start on the internet to find a "doorway".
Mutual Aid and community is DISTINCTLY DIFFERENT from charities/non-profits. I won't go into it here, but the two (mutual aid and charities/non-profits) aren't the same and actually opposed to each other.
Buuuuuut.....
Folks overlap between the two.
So I might focus on mutual aid, but I'll work with some charities because their apparatus furthers a mutual aid goal in the immediacy.
With that in mind, you can search out charities on the internet. They are well established there and are often upheld by local govt and churches. So they're protected.
Certainly go find some charities that align with your "one thing" (the thing you'll focus on now until you learn about more).
The big thing though, is the charity is not the goal. The people that work there are the goal. You are building a network. So go and meet people but BE FUCKING CHILL about your goals. You start spouting off mutual aid and bad things happen. So just be quiet and listen (this being quiet and listening is going to be your main skill to develop for a long while... so embrace it now).
You'll mostly find old boomers in retirement and religious folks with some politicians. They are charity folks. Great. But you're looking for folks that don't fit those molds. You're looking for the hippies, the socialists, the anarchists, the folks who have grown up poor and now have some means. "One of these things is not like the other". Find the anomalies and follow *their* lead.
You're going to sit in these charities for months while you meet people. Listen to "small talk". If it's related to religion, enjoy learning about your neighbors and what motivates them.
But if it's apparatus building and working with other groups, those are the conversations you want to join in on.
I'll say that again:
If the conversation is about WORKING WITH OTHER GROUPS on shared goals... get in on that. I don't care if its other charities. Get in on it.
After a while, you'll start meeting folks that are building real mutual aid. Learn the initiatives in your area and you'll find and settle into the groups that are doing work but not advertising on social media about it.
So.
Where to start?
Pick one of the following areas (there are more, but these are entry points):
- Food.
- Homeless outreach.
- Literacy / schooling.
- Political access and voting.
Just pick one area and find groups that do that thing. Don't worry about picking the right one. You're going to be moving around for a bit while you learn, so its fine. They all flow.
For Food: Find your local Food Bank and Food Pantries. Feeding America is a good start. Look there. Food Banks need lots of volunteers. Find a thing you can do and do it. Local churches act as Food Pantries. Go to those and help hand out food. If you're really lucky, find a place that makes and serves hot food. DO THAT!!! You'll get real close to mutual aid right away.
For Homeless outreach, look up local shelters - sure. Shelters tend TO ABSOLUTELY SUCK!!! So your mileage may vary. Look for places that gather up clothes and coats and hand them out. Look for places that serve the homeless communities and do that.
For Literacy and schooling, look up various elementary schools, libraries, and the same. After school programs for children. Boys and Girls clubs and the like as well. If you have kids, talk with your school counselors and ask them about the school programs that serve under-privileged families.
For political access and voting, don't join a political party. Instead find local orgs that focus on registering people for voting. The NAACP shines in this. You don't have to be black to join the NAACP. Local DSA (Democratic Socialists of America) are also a good place to look.
Great. So how do you find them?
A quick note on internet searches just to get it out of the way: Search for "city or town name" and:
- "food bank"
- "food pantry"
- "mutual aid"
- "after school programs"
- "voter advocacy"
- "homeless shelter"
- "women's shelter"
- "town resources"
- "library"
On that last note: The BEST PLACE TO START is your local library.
Just go hang out in the library for a while. They post A LOT of stuff for the town. Classes, resources, groups, events, etc. And by "post" I actually mean physical posts. Fliers on the wall and on physical "announcement boards". The librarians themselves are great. Just ask them. They're there to help. Literally.
In fact, don't approach looking for these groups as a volunteer (I hate that word). Don't approach them as a person looking to contribute and build.
Instead, approach these groups as a person who could benefit from them. So for food, ask the librarians to help you find "food pantries for distributions". The libraries are geared to help the community. So get all the info on that, and then flip it around and go to the food pantries and ask how you can help.
So. Internet search for groups is an okay start. But go to the local library and ask.
All you need is ONE WAY in. Once you find some sort of group doing something - anything... go there. Then meet the people. Find a stray community worker that also works there and learn from them. Then find out about the other groups that meet and are building and doing. Go to those in person meetings and spread from there.
(Ask questions in this thread and I and others will give you ideas.)
Also, if you need help finding those initial groups, DM me with your town name and I'll give you a list of groups that you can start with.
@tinker Thanks, once again, for posting. Tagging this for next weekend's #SolarPunkSunday. Some very useful comments too.
Our Trainer Community Manager @da5nsy is out in the wild today at the “Building a comprehensive and coordinated training landscape for dRTPs” event!
They are joining brilliant folks across the UK training ecosystem including our friends from @CaSDaRnetwork to explore how we can make research training more connected, open and future-ready.
Go Danny! 🌟
#OpenScience #ResearchTraining #CommunityBuilding
🌶️ I like my work both hard and soft. 🌶️ My mission is all about that spicy middle ground where robust system architecture meets genuine emotional safety.
Why choose one when you can have both? 😉
I spend my days bridging the gap: making sure the "hard" tech stuff—ethical code and decentralization—plays nicely with the "soft" stuff—inclusive community building and human wellness.
We need systems that are strong enough to protect us, but flexible enough to welcome us.
Want to help build an Open Web that feels this good?
Boost this post or drop a 💖 in the replies if you’re into structured empathy!
Our Trainer Community Manager @da5nsy is out in the wild today at the “Building a comprehensive and coordinated training landscape for dRTPs” event!
They are joining brilliant folks across the UK training ecosystem including our friends from @CaSDaRnetwork to explore how we can make research training more connected, open and future-ready.
Go Danny! 🌟
#OpenScience #ResearchTraining #CommunityBuilding
📣 Fitness motivation courtesy of the rockstar members ages 65-94 from my SPARTA Strength Class at the Malden Senior Center. 💪🏾
🎯 This class is designed for all abilities and rooted in community building.
It’s never too late to get active! 👟
#fitness #aging #health #seniors #communitybuilding #healthequity #seniorfitness #healthyaging #longevity #groupfitness #maldenma #northshorema #hiit
🔥 “Creative Technologist.” Sounds cool, but what does it mean?
I’m not a coder. My strengths are communication, community building, and organizing events that bring people together.
For me, it means using tech as a creative tool to connect people. I try to design spaces where care, empathy, and community come first.
Think of it like this:
✨ A chef who invents new kitchen tools
✨ A musician who builds the instruments they play
✨ Tech as rhythm and presence—creating space for people to gather
Tech isn’t just platforms or protocols. It’s about people. When we center care and empathy, we move from networking to real connection.
💬 That’s what I mean when I say I’m a Creative Technologist.
How do you explain your role outside your field?
🇭🇹🇺🇸Celebrating the Grand Opening of Action for Haitian Community Development (AHCD) in Malden today alongside fellow Chamber and community members! 🎉
👏🏽I'm proud to support this milestone as a Malden Chamber Board Member and deeply value this work as a first-generation adult child of immigrants. Congratulations, AHCD!✨
#Haiti #haitian #CommunityBuilding #immigrants #ESL #America #culture #maldenma #northshorema #careers
We filled up 11 boxes with freshly picked #GrannySmith #apples yesterday. Me, Hannah & 2 volunteers went out on a small pick(1 tree). An excellent harvest gleaning day - for Hannah's last day with LifeCycles.
https://lifecyclesproject.ca/our-projects/fruit-tree-project/
#photos #slideshow #FruitTreeProject #FoodEquity
#LifecyclesProject #FoodSystems #Nonprofit #FoodSecurity #fruit #Saanich #VictoriaBC #YYJ #VancouverIsland #VanIsle #PacificNorthwest #Cascadia #PNW #CommunitySharing #CommunityBuilding #Volunteers #harvest #FoodSharing #Teamwork #FruitPickers #CultivatingCommunities #FeedingCommunity
We filled up 11 boxes with freshly picked #GrannySmith #apples yesterday. Me, Hannah & 2 volunteers went out on a small pick(1 tree). An excellent harvest gleaning day - for Hannah's last day with LifeCycles.
https://lifecyclesproject.ca/our-projects/fruit-tree-project/
#photos #slideshow #FruitTreeProject #FoodEquity
#LifecyclesProject #FoodSystems #Nonprofit #FoodSecurity #fruit #Saanich #VictoriaBC #YYJ #VancouverIsland #VanIsle #PacificNorthwest #Cascadia #PNW #CommunitySharing #CommunityBuilding #Volunteers #harvest #FoodSharing #Teamwork #FruitPickers #CultivatingCommunities #FeedingCommunity
🧵1/2 #HispanicHeritageMonth 👮🏽♂️🚓
✨Tonight was my first time attending the LLEGO Boston Gala—and I left inspired.
🗣️LLEGO #Boston is a volunteer-led group of Boston Latino law enforcement, public safety officers, emergency responders, and community leaders. Now in their 8th year, they continue to strengthen partnerships, mentorship, and trust across Boston’s diverse neighborhoods.
🚑As an EMT-B and a first-generation 🇺🇸🇩🇴Dominican who grew up in Dorchester’s Fields Corner, seeing this commitment…
2/2
…hit home.
🤝🏽 Grateful to be one of many who support their mission—and be the change we want to see. Representation matters, and diversity is a strength. This is how we build leadership and empowerment.
#latinos #boston #lawenforcement #police #mentors #firstresponders #business #communitybuilding #immigrants #careers #leadership #EMT
We donated a bucket of apple mash to our local #nonprofit friends at Victoria #Compost #Education Centre 💗
Their compost worms will love it!
#SoilGuardians #FoodSecurity #VictoriaBC #CommunityBuilding #CommunitySharing #ReduceFoodWaste #SustainableSoil #YYJ #VancouverIsland #VanIsle #PacificNorthwest #PNW #CommunityPartners
We donated a bucket of apple mash to our local #nonprofit friends at Victoria #Compost #Education Centre 💗
Their compost worms will love it!
#SoilGuardians #FoodSecurity #VictoriaBC #CommunityBuilding #CommunitySharing #ReduceFoodWaste #SustainableSoil #YYJ #VancouverIsland #VanIsle #PacificNorthwest #PNW #CommunityPartners
Just two more days to vote for our SXSW panels, and then we'll stop going on about them until next March 🤞.
Cast your votes to see @mike talking to Rudy Fraser of Blacksky about community building, and Patreon's Jack Conte about creator independence.
#SXSW#Flipboard#CommunityBuilding#Blacksky#RudyFraser#Creator#CreatorEconomy#Patreon
Just two more days to vote for our SXSW panels, and then we'll stop going on about them until next March 🤞.
Cast your votes to see @mike talking to Rudy Fraser of Blacksky about community building, and Patreon's Jack Conte about creator independence.
#SXSW#Flipboard#CommunityBuilding#Blacksky#RudyFraser#Creator#CreatorEconomy#Patreon
While my community worked to find ways to engage with systems, institutions, and policies that were never designed to include us, white folx often, in greater numbers than I ever imagined, chose to double down on maintaining their unearned power and privilege by escalating the violence of white supremacy on themselves.
And the chilling truth is this, if white folx will inflict this level of harm on themselves, it is no wonder that appeals to “your better half” go unheard when that abuse is directed toward “the other.”
#ProfitWithoutOppression#FacilitatedConversations#AntiracistPractice#WhiteSupremacyCulture #ChristianNationalism#UnlearningWhiteness#CollectiveLiberation#CommunityBuilding#JusticeAndEquity#KimCrayon#PWOCommunity
☀️Highlights from today’s Heatwave D4 Summer Fest in Dorchester
✅From HIIT and senior yoga to CPR demos, bouncy houses, and youth hoops—there was something for everyone.
😅Smiles everywhere. Movement, music, and community care in full effect.
➡️Grateful to Councilor Brian Worrell and the whole crew who made it happen.
#boston #dorchester #cpr #fun #family #fitness #food #communitybuilding
D4 Dorchester, today is the day!☀️👇🏾
🔥 Heatwave is back!
✅Join us today, Aug 9, 9AM–6PM at Roberts Playground (56 Dunbar Ave) for a free day of fitness, food & fun in #Dorchester!
🔥My HIIT class is at 11am and it’s for all abilities!
🏀🧘🏾♀️🎨🍦 DJs, Zumba, bouncy houses, senior yoga & more!
#Fitness#CommunityBuilding#CPR#healthequity#Heatwave2025#Boston#D4SummerFest#BostonSummer#FamilyFun #music#StrongerTogether
We had #Fedicon because @reiver came to #sxsw to speak, and he left with the conviction that a Fediverse event in Vancouver would work. And he reached out to Canadian Fediverse participants to get a great lineup of speakers. He energized some really talented collaborators like @manlycoffee and @Crissy to make the event actually happen.
Wasn’t sure what I could’ve contributed as a 🌈 nondev at FediCon but thankfully @reiver said sure 🤭
Glad to be part of the FEDI community since the great twitter migration of 2022/23 when @manlycoffee suggested for me to join this place as a designer and creative 🙏